Why some people get angry easily? I am those people who easily get pissed. Well, in my point of view, "the weather is hot", "I am stressed"....these sorts of things aren't the main reasons to cause people pissed. Somehow, people would feel angry because of faults that the 3rd party had made. Most likely I would feel angry in this situation, or I would feel that because I can't bear people making useless argument. Regarding the first situation, when the 3rd parties do something that inconvenience for me and someone else, I certainly pissed. To respect each other is what you need to do in this universe. Of course, pissing at anyone is not a good way either. But the point is, why do we need to make people around you get angry? Today, some guy asked me the question - why are you get pissed easily? Actually, I guess those people who closed with me would (/maybe) notice that, though I get pissed easily, soon I will be fine again. Honestly, I'd feel exhausted from angry with a person for too long. Some kind of angering is needed, and that would make you notice how that person may important to you. You would regret after the argument with your important one. You would remind yourself to not to piss at him/her and cherish the relationship. The next argument comes again, more sorrows you suffered, but more you know - good thing is hard to find, treasure for what you have got. Like I said, I could not bear when people were arguing. Actually I will not piss, but annoy. I like to try to settle them down. I do not like wars. I hate wars.
Now, I guess I would try to replace anger with love, just because living is loving, and loving is living. One cannot exist without the other. I do remember, some said love is not a game, that I can see how he treasures love and till now, I still proud of him. But now I would say, Love is a game that two can play and both can win. Yet, noises from others are my biggest concern. I was scared of so many things; scared of 3rd party, scared of some other objects would replace my place. But now, I scare of noises. I do not care what they said behind me or us. I do not care if we really match well together. I do care if one day the beloved one cannot endure it, love faded again. It is definitely unworthy. And this was the reason is wept at night in the minibus. I know it is non-sense. But I do understand true love does not consist of holding hands, it consists of holding hearts. Loving and caring with our whole-heart that frees us of all weight and pain of life. Also, you will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love.
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